However.....this is my blog......the one where I share the ups and downs of everyday life.....and right now....I am looking to vent!
The Tale of a Mean Girl:
The Princess is now a flourishing seventh grader. I have seen her change before my very eyes. She is an amazing kid....if I do say so myself........AND I do! So....what, might you ask......could ever tarnish this American Dream? Why......one pathetic, wanna-be of a mean girl....that's who! I am not sure whom I want to punch more......this little bitch who goes OUT OF HER WAY to make TP's life more difficult OR her pathetic mother who has allowed (AHEM.....encouraged) her to become this way!!! This woman is supposedly a friend of mine...but I am having a more and more difficult time holding my tongue around her....and losing ALL desire to maintain a friendship with her. The girl goes to great lengths to exclude TP and is wildly jealous of any relationship forged that doesn't include her. Oh yes...it's the "I want you to want to be my friend so I can torture you!" scenario and I am f*cking sick of it. She has tried ignoring it, calling the girl out on the stunts, and expanding the friendship circle. I know......I know.......I KNOW...it probably bothers me more....but I can't help myself from wishing some karmic retribution on this little hussy. UGH......I really hate this little bitch........I know she's just a kid.....but she is HORRID!
The Tale of the Problem Child:
God bless Junior Mayhem......he has done his level best since BIRTH to ensure that there is never a dull moment around here. Ever the non-conformist, his experiences with school have been less than ideal. I sat in a meeting at school today where no less than 7 people stared at me as we discussed the reasoning behind his complete and utter inability to do what he is supposed to do. While conducting observations to achieve base line data for behavior modifications, the interventionist observed the teacher having to redirect him as much as SEVEN times in a 30 minute period. Now I am faced with even more dilemmas! Do I medicate him? Do I start the DREADED ball rolling on the ADHD roller coaster? Do I trust that the behavior modifications that are soon to be implemented will work? Do I crack down on him even more than I already do? Do I drink myself into oblivion to help discontinue my constant neurotic questioning of what to do? Do I jump the gun and admit myself into a facility that comes equipped with a padded room?
I never knew I could feel so protective over a child that I have an overwhelming desire to strangle! Cause you know.......I can complain and moan all day long about my kid.....but DON'T let anyone else have the audacity to do so!
So.....yes.....I am a bit stabby these days. AND.....I would like some CHEESE with my whine!
Calgon?
10 Knelt before the Queen:
Your Highness: We went through the same things with my grandson and after 5 years of tormenting the child, his teachers, his family and his friends, we finally medicated him at the end of last year. Amazing results! and he is not a zombie child, he is still himself only he can control himself. If you want the name of the medication his wonderful doctor prescribed, just drop me a line.
Sadly, I have 'been there, done that' more than once... with 8 kids I can assure you!
My advice: more wine, much less cheese.
And keep smiling... cos it gets worse...much worse ...once they become teenagers.
Want a glass for the wine, or will ya just drink it from the bottle... I don't mind... I ain't looking... lol!
Oh I can't stand mean girls and my daughter NEVER better become one or I will strangle her myself. And about Junior I would try a diet change for him before going the medication route. Email me and I can give you some diet changes we have seen great success with at our house! But they aren't easy ones.
I second Chris...more WINE!!! :) Hope you feel better soon!
~K
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今年のクリスマスも後少しですね。グリー内でもクリスマスに備えて異性と交流を持つコミュニティが活発で、自分も今年のクリスマスにお陰で間に合いました！！みなさんもイブを一人で過ごさなくても良いように、グリーで異性をGETしよう
More than likely, the comments written in Chinese characters have some very good advice for you!!...lol
I'm getting many of those on my blog...all spam.
Most of us have gone through the "mean girl" trauma. It's not fun but it develops into a little character building for our girls.
Haley is like her mom...a survivor! She'll be the winner in the end. Hang tight, Your Highness...
The Chinese stuff is most likely potentially harmful, hacking kind of stuff. It is why I approve all comments before they are posted on my blog.
As far as children go...... Children only know what they've been exposed to. What they've been exposed to is a hodge podge of various people's agenda's, some good, and some.....
When I was a kid, my dad owned my grandfather, his father in law. Grandpa was one of the most highly respected of my dad's employee's, but dad owned him. So, could grandpa give me sincere, honest, guidance? Not really.
The closest he ever came to giving me the council he really wanted to give was when he told me this story about the town where he grew up that made no sense what so ever.
The story? There was a man who had a son, they farmed. The man screamed at his son constantly, told him he was stupid, and threatened him. When the son turned 17, he packed a bag, walked down the drive way, and was never seen again.
Did it make a lot of sense to me at 14? Not really. My dad wasn't a farmer, he owned a road building company.
There were a lot of things wrong with the picture. Did any of the adults looking at the picture have a reason to question it? Apparently not, my grandfathers comment was the closest anybody ever came to doing so.
I didn't learn how to vanish at the end of the driveway until I was in my mid 20's. By then, it was too late to avoid a lot of the damage.
so are you done blogging now???
Okay, so I don't know how I lost you on facebook, but clearly I did. Where did you go?
I found you again, bur now I can't add you since you don't have an 'add me' button.
It's Michelle, your favorite canadian. (Yes, this is my new blog - I'm currently battling breast cancer. Yuck)
Anyway - can you friend me again? Pleeeasseee? I can't seem to find you.
michelle farrance at g mail dot com
Hugs,
M.
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